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Risk Taking to Avoid Playing It Safe

I was emotionally gripped to hear a man named John Moorhead speak from beyond the grave. He had been recorded days before succumbing to cancer and his message was played during a men's retreat. When confronted with a cancer diagnosis, he quickly saw areas in his life...

Peering Through a Gap in Eternity’s Door

My heart was profoundly moved when I met Jim at a men's retreat not long ago. He had a ready smile and seemed about my age. He was never without his baseball cap for a reason I found out later. During the course of the retreat I had several conversations with Jim. He...

Feeling Inspired or Expired?

Feeling inspired or expired? Which word best describes how you feel about your midlife and beyond years? We're used to everything having an expiration date these days. Even a sealed bottle of pure water has a date when it expires! A close friend told me recently his...

Living to 90!

Have you thought about what it would be like to live until you're 90 years old? That time may be so far into the future it's hard to imagine. You may feel somewhat daunted by having another 30-40 years to go. Or you may welcome the idea of the new adventures and...

Moving Mountains in Midlife

If you’re in the midlife and beyond years, let me congratulate you for making it this far on the journey. The wealth of experience and wisdom you’ve learned along the way is of great value. Don’t underestimate it! But have you noticed how many difficulties are also...

Does Your Life Feel Like a Long Tennis Match?

Did you know that the longest tennis match in history lasted more than eleven hours and scored a combined total of nine hundred and eighty points? It took place over three days in 2010 at Wimbledon, England between John Isner of the United States and Nicolas Mahut...

5 Things to Hold Onto When Worry Grips You

As a kid, I grew up in Southern California. One of the things I looked forward to was taking a trip to my grandparent’s cabin located in the San Bernardino Mountains about three hours outside of Los Angeles. One trip in particular is seared in my memory. I was sitting...

Statue of David Carved From Flawed Marble

There is a fascinating story behind the sculpting of the Statue of David by Michelangelo. Did you know that the Statue of David was made out of a flawed piece of marble? An earlier artist had begun work on it 25 years before, but soon quit stating the the marble was...

The Symphony of Your Life

Did you know that you are the conductor of a major symphony? However, the notes of the score won't be played by strings, wind or brass instruments. Rather, the orchestration will be played with relationships, circumstances and influence that create beautiful melodies...

A Blue Whale By Comparison

Comparisons can be helpful. I heard an interesting one recently. The pastor was talking about the difficult trials we experience on our life's journey. The Bible refers to them as "momentary light afflictions" (2 Cor. 4:17). He said that while the trials seem huge to...
Make a Splash

Make a Splash

Do you tend to play it safe and avoid risk? I know I do. It's something I'm trying to change. I'm not talking about common sense things like not...

Scanning the Horizon for an Answer

Scanning the Horizon for an Answer

Do you ever feel like you are scanning the horizon for an answer from God? I sure do! We live with so many uncertainties today that getting an...

Dog Lover vs. Dog Liker

Dog Lover vs. Dog Liker

My wife is a major dog lover. There's little she won't do to make her two dogs happy. And they reciprocate! Me...I'm more of a dog "liker," not a...

Elderlescence

Elderlescence

I was introduced to a new word this week — Elderlescence. Have you heard it before? It's not in the dictionaries yet. Hans Finzel, author of the new...

The Story of Your Life

The Story of Your Life

Ever thought of your life as a story? Maybe a love story? A drama? A mystery? A thriller? A work of science fiction? A battlefield? A story of...

The Remarkable Impact of Your Life

The Remarkable Impact of Your Life

Are you aware that your life has a remarkable impact? If you answered "no," then you're like most of us. We just don't see our influence as we...

Boomers Turning 70!

Boomers Turning 70!

Did you know that the first of the boomer generation is turning 70 this year? As you recall, we exploded onto the scene in 1946 and swelled to 76...

Living On Eternity’s Doorstep

Living On Eternity’s Doorstep

In the past, Churches used to have graveyards nearby that parishioners walked by to get to the services. While a bit morbid for today's church...